Change Your Life In 2020. Hello everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will be sharing a few tips to help you change your life in 2020. In case you have not noticed, we have started a new decade. Instead of the usual term, New Year New Me, I would like to change that to New Decade New Me. There are a few ways to change your life in 2020. However, I want to walk with you through 5 steps you can take to change your life.
Change Your Life In 2020
How Do You Know It’s Time To Change Your Life?
The obvious answer to that is you will know when you are unhappy. In some cases, yes, that is true. However, what are you sad about? Is your living conditions? Is it your finance or your job? Maybe it’s the people around you? Or perhaps things are not just going your way? If you have been thinking about this in the past decade, then the time is Now.
Ask Your Self Why Do you want to Change Your Life?
Before you even begin to do anything, get a pen and a notepad or something. Write down why you want to change your life. List down things in your current lifestyle that you like and do not like and explain why.
Identify The Things You Want To Change
In other words, be specific. Instead of comparing your life with other people’s lives, be accurate and very detailed about the things you want to change. Ask yourself, can you change it? If the answer is no, but you still want to change it, go for it. Do whatever makes you happy every day of your life.
Example of Things to Remove From Your life
- Negative people
- Pleasing others
- Negative self-talk
How To Change Your Life In 2020?
You do this by changing your mindset. Changing your mindset and controlling your emotions are very important because they both hold what you do next. Most people wake up in the morning and immediately start thinking of their problems, plans for the day, going to work and coming home to their loved ones, etc. Some people even wake up and start thinking about what they will eat later in the evening.
Now I am all in with planning, but honey, you just woke up, and that’s the first thing you think about? Control your mindset by thinking about something positive and saying them out loud. For example, wake up in the more and say, ‘I can not wait to see what today brings’ or ‘I got a feeling that today is going to be a good day. Try LSW Mind Cards (Affiliate) for inspiration to help you change your mornings.
Do not sit around and wait for somebody to get things for you. I remember when I had a habit of asking someone to get something sorted for me due to a lack of confidence until someone said, ‘Sonia, it would be easier if you do it yourself so that you have more control over your life. Learning how to motivate yourself is a powerful personal skill you need to have. At the end of the day, life is a journey, and everyone is occupied on their journey.
Practice Self Love
There are many ways to practice Self-love; you are probably doing some now:
- Taking responsibility for your life
- Believe in yourself
- Focus on what you have to be grateful for
- Meditate daily
- Speak Positive things about yourself to yourself
- Be the Master of your life.
Challenge Yourself To Try Something New Daily
This could be anything like sleeping early, trying different cultural food etc. Trying something new daily is good because it will put you out of your comfort zone. You will be explored in a variety of Be kind to everyone, make new friends, and explore your city.
I hope you enjoyed that.
Yes to the negative people. I found that was my biggest struggle in 2019, and I’m just over it and ready to move forward and be better and more positive.
Removing negative people is a big one. It is such a relief to distance yourself from negativity.
Having motivation is so important in order to change anything you set your mind to.
Great tips, and incredible timing! I may have to have my 10yo read this post later. She is working through some mental blocks right now when it comes to her schoolwork, and last night we were talking her through this exact same thing – CHANGE YOUR MINDSET!
Nice read! Thanks for the tips!
These are all such great points. I am working hard to make a lot of changes this year. I want to focus on making this a better year!
Great post. It’s always hard to make a change but so worth it. No reason to continue being unhappy. Make a change and make an actionable plan for that change.
What a great post and just what I need for today.
I love this..”Instead of comparing your life with other people life, be true and very detailed about the things you want to change.” We so often fall into the trap of trying to change but basing that change on what we see others doing. And, often we’re basing it off what we see in other’s social media accounts-their highlight reel. Stepping back and being true about what we want to change is so important. Thanks so sharing.
All of these are great of course we want to always change our mindset for the better
I am totally ready for a new 2020, and new things to happen in our life. Motivation is what we need day by day.
Oh, I love this!
I was listening to a seminar once where the speaker basically said that if you want to guess how your life is going to look in the next five years, just look at the last 5.
Because that’s how your life is going to be unless you – the major key to your own future – makes a change now.