10 Ways to Empower Your Communication. Hey everyone, I hope you are all well. In today’s post, I want to talk about 10 ways you can do to empower your communication. I feel this is an important topic to talk about, for those who have a problem when it comes to communicating with people. I am disabled and one of my disabilities is hearing loss (I wear 2 digital hearing aids) from a young age.
This has changed the way I communicate with people and how people communicate with me. It can either be transferred as a positive or negative way between the individuals that I may be having a conversion with. However, I also feel some people have difficulty in communication. This could be due to shyness, anxiety, or just don’t know what to say or can not hold on the conversation flowing smoothly.
A Little Thought…
The Blarney Stone is a historical stone or part of the Blarney Castle in Ireland where it was believed that kissing the stone can grant you the gift of gab.
Yeah, it seems strange in this day and age, but who are we to question tradition?
It’s not like I’m saying that Santa Claus doesn’t exist (OOPS!).
There is so much to know about conversation that anyone, even I, could ever realize. You can go though watching talk shows; radio programs; clubs dedicated to public speaking; ordinary conversations; certain rules still apply when it comes to interaction through words.
It may sound tedious, I know, but even though it’s your mouth that’s doing the work, your brain works twice as hard to churn out a lot of things you know. So what better way to start learning to be an effective communication is to know the very person closest to you: yourself.
10 Ways To Empower Your Communication
What You Know
Education is all about learning the basics, but to be an effective speaker is to practice what you’ve learned. My stint as guest at every Toastmasters’ meeting I go to taught me that we all have our limitations, but that doesn’t mean we can’t learn to keep up and share what we know.
It’s just as important as asking questions. Sometimes listening to the sound of our voice can teach us to be a little bit confident with ourselves and to say the things we believe in with conviction.
We all make mistakes, and sometimes we tend to slur our words, stutter, and probably mispronounce certain words even though we know what it means, but rarely use it only to impress listeners. So in a group, don’t be afraid to ask if you’re saying the right word properly and if they’re unsure about it then make a joke out of it. I promise you it’ll make everyone laugh and you can get away with it as well.
There’s a lot to say when it comes to directing your attention to your audience with an eye-catching gaze. You must keep your focus when talking to a large group in a meeting or a gathering, even though he or she may be gorgeous.
A little bit of humour can do wonders to lift the tension, or worse boredom when making your speech. That way, you’ll get the attention of the majority of the crowd and they’ll feel that you’re just as approachable, and as human to those who listen.
Be Like The Rest Of Them
Interaction is all about mingling with other people. You’ll get a lot of ideas, as well as knowing what people make them as they are.
Me, Myself, and I
Admit it, there are times you sing to yourself in the shower. I know I do! Listening to the sound of your voice while you practice your speech in front of a mirror can help correct the stress areas of your pitch. And while you’re at it you can spruce up as well.
With A Smile
A smile says it all much like eye contact. There’s no point on grimacing or frowning in a meeting or a gathering unless it’s awake. You can better express what you’re saying when you smile.
A Role Model
There must be at least one or two people in your life you have listened to when they’re at a public gathering or maybe at church. Sure they read their lines, but taking a mental note of how they emphasize what they say can help you once you take centre stage.
Make the best out of preparation rather than just scribbling notes and often in a hurried panic. Some people like to write things down on index cards, while other resort to being a little sillier as they look at their notes written on the palm of their hand (not for clammy hands, please). Just be comfortable with what you know since you enjoy your work.
And That About Wraps It Up.
These suggestions are rather amateurish in edgewise, but I’ve learned to empower myself when it comes to public or private speaking and it never hurts to be with people to listen how they make conversations and meetings far more enjoyable as well as educational.
I hope you enjoy the post and have learnt something from it.
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