10 Things You Should Never Expect From Others. Hey everyone, I hope you are well. In today’s post, I will be sharing 10 things you should never expect from others. By others, I mean everyone. It doesn’t matter how close you are to them. Over the years, I have learnt a lot from my experience with different types of people. As an adult, I believe this is something we need to talk about to our younger generations, and life will be so much more comfortable with this mindset.
10 Things You Should Never Expect from Others
One of the hardest things to do is to forgive someone who is not sorry. But the forgiveness is for you, not for them. When somebody hurt you, they take power over you. If you don’t forgive them, they keep the power. The person has moved on with their life, and you’re still here hurting. Why?
Everyone wants closures after a break-up. Whether it is in their relationships, marriages or friendships, the truth is you may not get the type of closure you are looking for. We all have the individual mindset, and most of the times, we only give others what they want and not what they need. Sometimes you got to provide yourself with closures so that you can move on. Some people will never give it to you.
I can’t say this clear enough – No one owes you an explanation for anything they’ve done. No matter what. Just the same way. Stop having arguments with someone who you just because they are not explaining because you think you deserve it unless you are the boss!
No one can make you happy. It comes from within you. Stop expecting people to make you happy or to stay comfortable. The most optimistic person in the world is the person who seeks nothing from anyone. Why would you
We expect people to be honest with us at all time, right? Things, most people are not even honest with themselves. So do not wish them to be honest with you. Only a few will.
As painful as it is – no one is obligated to love you even if you’ve loved them first. Love is a choice. Not a must! Do not expect someone to love you just because you love them generally. The truth is they may never love you the way you love or the way you want to love.
Indeed, no one is you, so don’t expect them to do for you what you do for them. It doesn’t matter if it’s family or relationships. It doesn’t matter how long they have been in your life, and they share the same clothes or dreams or interests with you. People have a unique mindset.
Many people have no self-respect. So they will not give respect. You can provide people with all the respect in the world. But the truth is you can not offer what you don’t have.
Have you ever had to explain a situation that wasn’t your fault and hoped that the other person would understand? Then the next week, the same issue came up again? And you find yourself explaining over again? The truth is no one would ever understand you fully. Some people would never get you or even try. As long as you know yourself, they don’t know your past or what is in your mind.
Seek no approval for what you do or what you are from anyone. You are lovely without anyone’s validation. I am guilty of this, and I am sure I am not the only one. However, I realised that no matter what I do, it is not enough for their satisfaction.
As harsh as these points are, it is indeed the reality of the people in the world. As a young adult, I had learned these points the hard way.
I hope you enjoyed that.